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Wednesday, December 31st, 2025 10:10 pm
1. DEAR ABBY: My 13-year-old son was getting off the school bus. His friend was in front of him. My son thought it would be funny to take his friend's water bottle out of his backpack and drop it on the pavement. A few days later, my son got sent to the principal's office, not because he was in trouble but because the parents had called the school to complain about their son's scuffed water bottle and wanted it replaced. They asked for $23.

I wrote a check and was tempted to add a snarky comment, but I didn't. Yes, my son should keep his hands to himself, but the water bottle is still functional. My son apologized. Am I living my life wrong, or is it OK that they just invoiced me like that? -- UNSURE IN ILLINOIS


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2. We own a cabin across the street from our rural home. We rent it out occasionally. Our latest renter was the son of a neighbor who was in town for the holidays. We welcomed him and gave him our “friends and family” discount. On his first day there, we noticed that he had plugged his car into the charging station in the cabin’s garage. I understand his need to charge his car — but not at someone else’s expense. His behavior struck me as rude and presumptuous. Your thoughts?

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3. My husband’s relatives are visiting from another country over Christmas. The two adults speak English fluently, but they haven’t taught their children — ages 3 and 5 — a word of it. This means that I will not be able to communicate with the children at all and they will be frightened by everyone they meet at holiday events since they won’t understand anything. The parents claim they haven’t taught their children English because they will learn it in school. But they planned this visit a year ago! So, because of their laziness, I will be excluded from many conversations in my own home. I see no point in learning their language since there is no language barrier among the adults. This is not the children’s fault, but their parents’ behavior is annoying and deliberate. How should I handle it?

HOSTESS


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4. A friend invited me to her New Year’s Eve party again this year, and again, she asked me to bring a dish to serve. A potluck! The food she offers herself is undistinguished. Granted, being a hostess is demanding, but my feeling is that if you can’t manage to feed your guests, you shouldn’t invite them. I would never ask mine to supply the repast. I am offended at the thought of buying and cooking food for her party. How can I decline her request to bring food but nevertheless attend the party?

GUEST


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5. Dear Eric: I own a few cars that I park on the street in front of my house. Some new toddlers and preschool kids are learning how to ride a bike. They circle constantly in front of my house instead of the house they rent next door to my house.

The neighbors park all over the street, and do not use the driveway. They have several cars and live in a cul-de-sac. They are not watching or teaching the kids how to ride or even stay out of the road as cars come through. But that's another issue. My question is, do I have any rights as a homeowner and county resident to ask the renters to stay away from the area in front of my house and the cars parked in front? My concern being the kids might hit my cars, and it's actually annoying to see them in front of my house for hours. People think these are my kids and think I'm not watching them.

What can I do?

– Neighborhood Watch


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Wednesday, December 31st, 2025 10:08 pm
And hopefully, let's all have a happy 2026!
Wednesday, December 31st, 2025 08:38 pm
If you want to get in on the challenge for 2026, this is your last reminder!

Here's the Sign Up Post if you want to participate!
Wednesday, December 31st, 2025 05:51 pm
Martin had alerted me to a tree on the road going up to Hunter's Camp. I saw it for myself a couple of days ago, and it was very much in the way on yesterday's ride. 

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Wednesday, December 31st, 2025 08:16 pm
When I used to teach creative writing, I would tell the students to make their characters want something right away -- even if it’s only a glass of water. Characters paralyzed by the meaningless of modern life still have to drink water from time to time.


Excellent advice. It gets the story moving and helps readers relate to the main character.
Wednesday, December 31st, 2025 07:55 pm
Any blogger can challenge themselves to an annual Fannish Fifty without signing up to the Fannish Fifty Challenge on DW, but if you want to be part of the "official" Fannish Fifty click here to sign up.
Wednesday, December 31st, 2025 08:24 pm
Just FTR, what did I read in 2025? Well, among miscellaneous others:

Finished Patricia Wentworth's oeuvre in the winter, George Bellairs' Inspector Littlejohn in the spring and summer, Charles Finch's Charles Lenox in the summer and fall, all of Miles Burton's Desmond Merion I could get a hold of in the fall, and John Rhode's Dr. Priestley ever since.

Reread almost all Rivers of London in the winter, and reread a buncha Vlad Taltos plus Paarfi plus his Monte Cristo hommage plus Brokedown Palace ditto. Reread Garner's first two, four Austens and two of DWJ's Howl books. Thumping big books were Johnathan Strange and Mr. Norrell, Terra Nostra, Ada Palmer's Inventing the Renaissance, Varraclough's Embers of the Hands, Selected Letters of Horace Walpole in the Yale edition (much better than the Everyman), and Nancy Mitford's Madame de Pompadour. This is a better nonfiction score than most years, especially if you add that still unfinished bio of da Vinci. Whom I still have confused with Leonard of Quirm, needing to remind myself that no, da Vinci was not totally uninterested in the practical use of his inventions.

Comfort rereads were the three best of Pratchett's five Witches books and all but the last Murderbot books, read and reread until I finally had a vague idea of how the action takes place in these space stations. Since I have four of these only in ebook, it's been hard parsing what's going on anyway, but I think I'm on top of it now. I went to Kobo from Kindle and am reasonably content with it.

Personally, money went on many many dentist appointments, a new toilet, and an upright walker. Started listening to opera on Saturdays and radio after, finally began downsizing my manga and doujinshi collection. Major snow in the winter and two elections, and I suppose it would have made no difference if Ford had postponed the provincial one until after the federal, because Fed Liberal invariably means Prov Con. Having the election in February was still a dick move. Smoke all summer, the new normal. My two favourite restaurants both closed and are desperately missed. There's also this little boycott thing going on since the inauguration. I have only ordered one thing from amazon.ca in that time and only because I couldn't get it anywhere else. Having comprised my principles to do it, I had better start making use of it, and I will post if I do.
Wednesday, December 31st, 2025 08:10 pm
December 2025 recs update:

[personal profile] unfitforsociety has been updated for December 2025 with 12 story recs and 1 vid rec in 7 fandoms:

* 5 Batfamily
* 2 Dungeon Crawler Carl
* 2 The Pitt
* 2 Star Wars
* 1 Slow Horses/Rivers of London crossover and 1 Ted Lasso vid

I haven't read much of anything from [community profile] yuletide, but the two I did rec I will update with author names tomorrow.

I didn't do much fannishly this year - the recs continue, and I still reblog a metric fuckton of stuff on tumblr, but my brain hasn't sparked to write again, though I think it might be inching closer, thanks to, of all things, Dungeon Crawler Carl. I also loved loved loved The Pitt and am so excited season 2 is coming so soon!

Now, I've got a new episode of Percy Jackson and the series finale of Stranger Things to watch, and then I have to wash my hair.

I hope everyone is celebrating New Year's Eve in their chosen fashion. <333

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Wednesday, December 31st, 2025 07:55 pm
Murder She Wrote - 9
Superman: TAS - 4
Birds of Prey (2020) - 1
Star Trek: Lower Decks - 8
Star Trek: TNG - 8
Star Trek: Insurrection - 5

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Wednesday, December 31st, 2025 07:54 pm

⌈ Secret Post #6935 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.


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Secrets Left to Post: 01 pages, 23 secrets from Secret Submission Post #990.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.
Thursday, January 1st, 2026 12:21 am
So much distance in between
But we're running towards the same dream
Now we're running towards the same dream




It looks as if the very Sultan + Shepard place (i.e. earnest sincerity) in which I've been for much of 2025 is going to be the mood I carry into 2026.
Wednesday, December 31st, 2025 02:47 pm
I posted a set of vid recs to my DW: recs for the Avatar shows, Stranger Things, 80s slasher movies, X-Men movies, Torchwood, Babylon 5, Star Wars OT, and Schitt's Creek.

See the recs here!
Wednesday, December 31st, 2025 03:43 pm
[I think this is the same situation as in [personal profile] conuly's last post but with more details]

Dear Eric: My husband and I have been together for 11 years. He has one daughter, 43, with two young children I adore and have been close to until last summer when the volcano erupted.

Since the beginning of our relationship, I have made every effort to be loving and generous to his daughter. She acts entitled and ungrateful to me.

It’s my fault for not standing up for myself early in my joining the family. For example, I wish to be thanked for gifts, babysitting, making holidays happen, having them over for dinner and so on.

She doesn’t seem to care about me at all. Her father will not stand up to her and seems scared of her.

Last summer I blew up at her in a text and let her know how I feel about her behavior.

I called her a manipulative user and let her know my truth which is certainly not her truth. I apologized twice in two letters for being so harsh, but she will not forgive me, allow a repair or let me see the grandkids. Her father will not help. This is hurting our marriage.

I miss the little ones terribly and cried for months about this. Yes, I am in therapy and hoping my husband will go to couples counseling together. Funny, he is a psychotherapist. I would be most appreciative if you can offer us your help.

— Missing Family


Family: Ask yourself what you have the power to change and what you need to accept, even if you don’t like it.

For instance, you probably should accept that the relationship with your husband’s daughter is not serving either one of you right now. And it’s probably because her relationship with your husband is not healthy. It’s likely that some of the frustration you’re feeling stems from a desire to change something that’s outside of your control.

You write that your husband won’t help you. If you want him to compel his daughter to accept your apology, that might not actually be useful. Unfortunately, even though your relationship with the grandkids was, perhaps, healthy, the other relationships supporting it are less so.

So, what can you change? Well, you’re doing the most important first step by working on yourself in therapy. If your husband won’t go to couples counseling (which he should), ask him why and ask him how he proposes to help you both communicate better.
Wednesday, December 31st, 2025 06:12 pm
Fandom: Sky Captain and the World of Tomorrow
Pairings/Characters: Gen; background F/M (Joe Sullivan/Polly Perkins; past (one-sided?) Female OC/Joe Sullivan), OCs
Rating: Teen And Up Audiences
Length: 12,448; 19 chapters
Content Notes: aftermath of torture, combat injury, period-typical ethnic stereotypes (Asiatic bad guys), genocidal scheming, gory battle trophies, gruesome Mad Science
Creator Links: [fanfiction.net profile] thebookishcat

Theme: Amnesty, Action/Adventure, Old Fandoms, Pre-AO3 Works, Research, Small Fandoms, Underloved Works, Worldbuilding

Summary: The authors(1) didn’t really provide one, so here’s mine: Joe’s old buddy, fighter pilot Captain Rock Masterson, is taken prisoner by air pirates—and darned if Rock isn’t Polly Perkins’ cousin, giving her sound reason to gatecrash the adventure! But little does Pirate King Dantes Blackbeard the Third suspect that his scheme for world conquest is being puppeteered by something even more horrific…

Reccer's Notes: (In which Full Metal Ox betrays an affection for dated media.)Continue. )

Is it Great Literature? Or even necessarily Good Writing? No—but the authors know exactly where in Storyland they’re supposed to be, and I’m the niche audience it’s for; they’ve fried up a tasty sack of potato chips.

Fanwork Links: Sky Captain and the Extinction Agenda, by [fanfiction.net profile] thebookishcat on Fanfiction.net: https://www.fanfiction.net/s/2108561/1/
Wednesday, December 31st, 2025 02:28 pm
Well, as predicted, [community profile] rec_cember went straight off a cliff, lol. I mean, to be fair, I was traveling for half the month, most of that time with other people, but I still hoped to get in another rec post or two than I actually did.

But I'll close out 2025 by reccing some vids! Since I got back into watching vids this past year, there are a bunch of new-to-me ones to share. For the Tumblr ones, since it now defaults to dash view (which you need to be logged in to see) I've tried to provide a non-logged-in version where possible.

We Didn't Start the Fire by [personal profile] beccatoria - ATLA & Legend of Korra
There aren't very many canons that are long, varied, and epic enough to vid to this song, but this works really well and the clip selection is A++.

Ice Cream Man by [archiveofourown.org profile] Pennyplainknits - Stranger Things season 3
I had a lot of problems with season 3 and Steve's sailor outfit was definitely one of them, but this is a very cute, fun, and playful vid about it!

80s horror summer by [youtube.com profile] legallybrunette1997 - 70s/80s slasher movies
Great editing and really goes for the retro vibe!

Human by [personal profile] kaydeefalls - X-Men movies, Mystique
I'm going through a nostalgia phase for these movies after rewatching the first two back in October, and this is a lovely vid that does a great job with Mystique's arc across the various movies.

Pink Pony Club by [www.tumblr profile] torchwood-99 - Torchwood, Gwen [Non-logged-in Tumblr link]
A wonderfully edited vid that does a fantastic job using the song lyrics to tell the two sides to Gwen's story on the show: she discovers her true calling and blossoms when the secret world of aliens opens up to her, but loses some of her humanity along the way.

Shake It Out by [www.tumblr profile] delovelie - Babylon 5 (major spoilers) [Non-logged-in Tumblr link)
A vid about breaking and getting up again.

Anti-Hero by [www.tumblr profile] cynicalangel80 - Babylon 5, Londo [Non-logged-in Tumblr link]
Great tragilarious vid about Londo's general everything.

What Was I Thinkin' by [archiveofourown.org profile] tafadhali - Star Wars OT, Han/Leia
A fun, bouncy vid set to honky tonk country that (surprisingly? unsurprisingly?) works really well for Han Solo.

If I Had $1,000,000 by [archiveofourown.org profile] januarium - Schitt's Creek
This canon/song pairing is INSPIRED and the editing and lip-syncing is great.
Wednesday, December 31st, 2025 11:52 pm

Welcome to New Year's Day 2026! 2025 has set a very low bar, but even so I don't have a whole lot of hope for improvement. Good luck, all. We'll need it.

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Wednesday, December 31st, 2025 03:54 pm
Happy end-of-2025! Here's to a better 2026 in whichever ways make the most difference to you. (I'm hoping that personal and spousal health challenges abate, and that democracy makes a comeback across the world and in my country.)

I haven't written about media since the beginning of the month because OMG Yuletide! (Let me be clear: it's great fun and enormously satisfying on a personal level to be part of the team that corrals all of the moving parts, but it is also a great deal of work. Also, I had a pinch hit to write, and a treat I really wanted to get in as well.) But now it's all over save the author reveals (for real this time, oog). And I did read and watch and play some things this month!

What I've recently finished reading:

The Daughters' War by Christopher Buehlman, the prequel (written later) to The Blacktongue Thief I didn't love this as much as I did the first, largely because while Galva is a great character, her voice is simply not as engaging as Kinch's voice. She's younger and more earnest here, and it is interesting to see her being shaped by war into the character she is in the other book. But it is war, here, and war is hell, and this war is particularly hellish; not just the conflict between human (kynd) and goblin, but the conflict between Galva and her asshole brother the incompetent general. There is canonical f/f. There is a lot of backstory that illuminates aspect of the first book. I liked it, but I'm looking forward to the actual sequel to The Blacktongue Thief.

An Age of Winters by Gemma Liviero, which I think B got as part of Kindle Unlimited. Historical crime fiction set in 17th C Germany, where mysterious child deaths are attributed to witchcraft, and the clergyman investigates. The narrator (for the most part; there are sections told by a castle functionary) is the clergyman's housekeeper, Katarin Jaspers, and while her narration is engaging, it's also very coyly used to hide the fact that she is an unreliable narrator both because she only knows what she herself can see or deduce, and also because things are left out that she does know, which feels a bit gimmicky. The pacing is terrible and the reveals come all at once in a rush of exposition. However, the story is interesting and the writing is quite atmospheric (and claustrophobic, oof, so glad I don't live in a theocracy), so I read it all but felt let down by the way the ending was presented.

What I'm reading now:

On [livejournal.com profile] thistle_chaser's rec, Adrian Tchaikovsky's The Tiger and the Wolf. He is certainly a prolific author with a very wide genre range: this is a fantasy primitive-culture world (it appears to be Bronze Age) where tribes not only identify with a guiding animal spirit, but tribal members can Step (i.e., shapeshift) into the form of that animal at will. The story feels a bit like some African-inspired YA I've read, as the primary protagonist is a 14-year-old girl of the Wolf - whose mother was of the Tiger, and who therefore does not fit in with her clan and her culture.

I don't love it as much as Thistle did, but also Thistle DNF'ed the second book, so it's possible I will simply like the whole series!

(Also, I've been reading Yuletide stories, of course...)

What we recently finished watching:

S4 of The Witcher, which has absolutely terrible ratings on IMDB but I thought was fine, if (as usual) I was more interested in some threads and less in others. I wonder whether the terrible ratings come from the recasting of Liam Hemsworth as Geralt (I thought he was fine), the very non-game-like casting of Laurence Fishburne as Regis (it took me a while, but ultimately I thought he was magnificent), Ciri/Mistle (this is book canon! and nodded to in the game!), or just Jaskier's hair looking, astonishingly, even uglier than it did in the first three seasons. Possibly it was the interweaving of three (or four, depending on how you look at it) very separate storylines that made it feel like either nothing or everything was happening.

(Though I will admit the WTF musical episode was legit terrible, and its 3.7/10 rating seems high to me.)

Death by Lightning, the Netflix miniseries about James Garfield, who was nominated as a reluctant compromise candidate by the Republican party in 1880, won the presidency partly due to the corrupt New York state political machine, whose do-nothing alcoholic layabout Chester Arthur was chosen vice presidential candidate, then promptly went about attempting to reform the spoils system and give black men representation and listen to the people and be generally a upright person and good leader, and was assassinated for his trouble. Some of the dialogue seemed a bit odd to my ear (did 19th century politicians really say "fuck" that much?!?!) and the character of Charles Guiteau was very cringe (props to Matthew Macfadyen I guess!).

But I did enjoy it a lot! And looking at the existing photographs of the principals I'm very impressed with the casting and makeup and such. Mostly I now want to read a really good biography of Garfield, and also of Arthur, who sobered up, cast off his corrupt cronies, and implemented the reforms Garfield had outlined.

What I'm watching now:

Just started The Empress, which is so far reminding me of The Leopard in that it's a foreign-language film about royalty in love juxtaposed against war and revolution, and also, the costumes are fabulous.

What I have played some of but not finished:

Spider-Man Remastered - I got past the Shocker main quest, finally, but - I decided I just don't like this game. It's too much, too many things, Peter is kind of a smart-ass, I'm not a superhero-media fan, and so on.

Death Stranding - this was free on Epic, and had really great reviews, but the whole premise kind of creeped me out. It's not a horror game, but I dislike the horror elements. I also found the story not interesting enough, at least at the start (admittedly I didn't play all that far in), and the looooooong cinematics sort of boring.

Gris - this is actually a cool atmospheric puzzle-platformer! But I suck at platformers and got stuck (a ways in, admittedly). I might give it another try, but it doesn't scratch the itch of "adventure game with a story" for me.

Horizon Forbidden West (replay) - It was kind of fun to replay the beginning, but now really I am just preferring looking over B's shoulder every so often. I remember the fun bits but ugh the hard bits.

What I'm playing now:

I'm maybe 4 hours into Ghost of Tsushima, which B played last year and really enjoyed. I'm liking it so far. I got to pet a fox! (And then real-me leaned forward and petted my real cat Cricket, who has resumed her habit of sitting between my keyboard and monitors. In fact, she's there right now!)

Happy New Year, everybody!
Wednesday, December 31st, 2025 05:37 pm
In the absence of either the energy or the photo backlog to do December pictures, here instead is a picture from each of my monthly photo posts from 2025. (Plus one for this month.)

January-November )

December

view through a window of bare twigs and red berries encased in ice with snowy residential neighborhood beyond

After the ice storm, the tree out my window was completely encased in ice.

Wednesday, December 31st, 2025 05:15 pm
Batfamily

buy back the secrets by [archiveofourown.org profile] sundiscus
5 times Superboy saves Tim Drake, and one time Tim Drake saves Superboy. Wonderful! <333

Jason and the Three Terrors by [archiveofourown.org profile] Cdelphiki
One moment, Jason was peacefully sleeping, perfectly content with his life with the League of Assassins. Okay, so maybe not content content, but he wasn't unhappy, either. Then Talia woke him up at 2 am, threw three children at him, and told him to get them to America and far away from Ra's al Ghul.

What the fuck.

The last thing he wanted was to see Bruce. But with three brats relying on him and no Talia, there weren't many options for sanctuary. He just didn't expect the kids to grow on him so much in two short weeks.
EPIC (326K words) AU where Talia sends Jason away from the League with Damian, Athanasia, and Mara, and their many adventures on the way home to Gotham. Engrossing read, highly recommended.

Life Alert by [archiveofourown.org profile] lurkinglurkerwholurks
Fantastic outsider POV on Red Hood and Batman. <333

Puzzles Made of Broken Glass by [archiveofourown.org profile] thatcuriouscat
Timmy Drake's parents go missing. He's the only one who notices. This is a long, entertaining, engrossing story about how Tim joins the Batfamily early. Oh, Tim. Highly recommended. <333

Resurgam by [archiveofourown.org profile] Nokomis
Bored during her pregnancy leave from being Spoiler, Steph decides to follow Robin and ends up in a cemetery. Only, something follows her home. <333

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Wednesday, December 31st, 2025 03:09 pm
10 Yuletide recs in 8 fandoms: Valdemar series, the Coldfire Trilogy, Cthulhu Mythos, Dimension 20: Escape from the Bloodkeep, The Goblin Emperor series, Rivers of London, Type Help, and Yami no Matsuei

https://harukami.dreamwidth.org/816011.html
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Wednesday, December 31st, 2025 05:12 pm
Dungeon Crawler Carl

13 Ways of Looking at a Lit Fuse by [archiveofourown.org profile] Cyphomandra
Carl, as others see him. Exactly what it says on the tin. Lovely. And Donut's voice is absolute perfection!

I Should Have Let Him In by [archiveofourown.org profile] Puns4Funs
Bea's POV leading up to and during the confrontation on Odette's show. Fascinating look at what Bea might have been thinking.

Wednesday, December 31st, 2025 05:10 pm
The Pitt

2:00 AM by orphan_account
"I don't understand why you're letting that asshole crash at your place," Santos says, flopping back on the couch in the break room. "Seriously, Mel. There's a reason his wife kicked him out." I enjoyed this.

Scenes from a Lavender Marriage by [archiveofourown.org profile] Siria
Trinity shrugged. "So marry me."

Whitaker stared at her. "You're a lesbian and I'm the opposite of a lesbian."

"Like that's stopped people before," Trinity said.
Santos and Whitaker get married so he can get a scholarship. It works out for them. <333

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Wednesday, December 31st, 2025 04:03 pm
This poem came out of the March 4, 2025 Poetry Fishbowl. It was inspired by prompts from [personal profile] mama_kestrel and [personal profile] rix_scaedu. It also fills the "Old Forrest" square in my 3-1-25 card for the Tolkien Bingo Fest. This poem has been sponsored by a pool with [personal profile] fuzzyred. It belongs to the series One God's Story of Mid-Life Crisis.

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Wednesday, December 31st, 2025 09:39 pm

Posted by John Scalzi

It’s strange, and possibly borderline offensive, to suggest that an at-the-time two-time Academy Award nominee and Golden Globe-winning actor had not arrived before appearing in The Shawshank Redemption. But guess what, this is precisely what I am going to do, right now. The Shawshank Redemption did a number of things: Gave Stephen King arguably his best movie adaptation. Moved Frank Darabont from a middlin’ genre screenwriter to the Hollywood A-list. Grabbed seven Oscar nominations, including Best Picture. Became the top-rated movie of all time on IMDb. This movie did all of these things. But what it truly did, was give the world its current understanding of the phenomenon that is Morgan Freeman. Freeman came into The Shawshank Redemption appreciated, admired, awarded and accomplished. He came out of Shawshank an icon.

It’s the narration, of course. The scaffolding of the entire movie, which Freeman offers in his rich, unhurried voice, offering context and commentary low and slow. Freeman isn’t just saying the words, he’s braising them, making them tender and toothsome but with just enough wry bite to keep the audience coming back. The words Freeman is saying come from Stephen King’s novella, filtered through Darabont’s screenplay. But make no mistake. The moment he starts speaking, they are his. It’s not an exaggeration to say that more than anything else, it’s Morgan Freeman, and his voice, that have made this movie the classic it is today. Take it away, it’s just another prison drama.

Maybe that’s too dismissive. Even without the narration, it would be a very handsome, very accomplished prison drama, and one that in many ways is clearly a labor of love for Frank Darabont. Darabont spent some of the money he got for his first feature film screenplay (A Nightmare on Elm Street 3: Dream Warriors) to secure an option on “Rita Hayworth and the Shawshank Redemption” from its author Stephen King. He reportedly spent $5,000 on the option; King reportedly never cashed the check. Darabont wrote a script and took a meeting at Castle Rock Productions, home of another fellow who liked Stephen King, Rob Reiner. Reiner loved the script and wanted to direct it, offering Darabont a fair amount of money to let him do so. Darabont took less money for the opportunity to direct it himself.

I think this is was a good choice on Darabont’s part. The version of Shawshank that Reiner would have made would, I think, have been good — we have both Stand By Me and Misery to stand testament to that. That said, there’s a lightness to Rob Reiner’s work (yes, even when Annie Wilkes is taking a sledgehammer to Paul Sheldon’s ankles, we’re talking an overall gestalt), in the way he frames and lights and shoots his scenes, and in how he directs his actors. Reiner’s Shawshank would have looked and played very differently, even with the same script in hand.

Darabont doesn’t do “light” — not just in this film but in any of them. He tried to do light in The Majestic and while I like that film quite a lot, actually, boy, was he not the right director for that. Darabont is dark — well, “dark” makes it sound like he’s goth or something, which he’s not. Let’s say “somber.” He’s somber, and his frame is considered, and he doesn’t do a closeup when he’s got a perfectly good medium shot to go to. Shit, even his close-ups aren’t that close up.

I suppose a word that matches well with Shawshank’s pace and bearing is “stately.” Nothing fast, everything considered, all of it moving along in its own time. Which makes sense. Everyone in this movie is doing time. Twenty years, forty years, life. They don’t have to be in a rush for anything. So they’re not, and neither is this film.

(There are fight scenes, and they are violent, and things move fast there. Again, big picture, folks.)

Darabont’s sensibilities as a director are precisely right for the story he wants to tell here, one where we need to feel the whole wide expanse of the time these men have at their disposal, and how time itself disposes of them. One of the most celebrated parts of the film is an interlude where an older convict, one who has spent nearly all his life in the prison, is paroled and loosed upon the world — or more accurately the world is loosed upon him. “The world got itself in a big damn hurry,” he writes his friends, but Darabont doesn’t make the interlude hurry at all. He follows it, stately, to its inevitable conclusion.

There is a larger story here. It’s told mostly by Ellis “Red” Redding (Freeman) in narration, centering on his friend Andy Dufresne (Tim Robbins), who is serving two life sentences for the murder of his estranged wife and her lover. Andy doesn’t fit into prison, and not just because he was a banker in his previous life. There’s something else going on with him that makes him an odd fish. Nevertheless over time Red and his friends warm to Andy, and Andy returns the favor as the skills from his past life start to come in handy for a warden (Bob Gunton) who has big plans, not all of them on the up-and-up.

Andy is a lifer and his life is no cakewalk in prison, but he holds out hope, which is something Red doesn’t approve of. Hope of what? Hope for what? It’s never specified, and then one day an important piece of information comes to light about Andy’s crimes. Things happen not fast after that, but certainly quicker than they had before, and we discover why Red had to be the narrator after all.

In King’s novella, Red is Irish (a throwaway line in the script, played for humor, is all that remains of that), but after this movie there is no way anyone would imagine anyone else but Freeman in the role. Freeman gives the character gravitas, but not at the expense of making you forget he’s in prison, and rightfully so. Red’s a lifer, and has the perspective of a lifer. If he’s maybe a little smarter than most of the other inmates, with somewhat more perspective, it doesn’t make his position any better than theirs, and he knows it. Red has gotten to sit with his own bullshit for years and years, and Freeman’s performance reflects that fact. The character has gravitas because the world and his choices weigh on him.

That comes through, to bring everything ’round again, in the narration. Narration is almost never a very good idea in film. It usually means that you’ve come to the end of production and editing and realized, shit, some very important plot points have been left terribly unwritten in the script, quick, grab the lead and loop in some lines. Bad narration can drag a film down (see: the original version of Blade Runner, where Harrison Ford’s apparently intentional leaden line readings indicated what value he thought they brought to the film) or even make it more confusing than it was before (see: 1984’s version of Dune, which to be fair, no amount of explanatory narration could have salvaged). So why does it work here?

One, because going back all the way to King’s novella, this was always Red’s story, even as he’s telling it about Andy. The frame was always there, and always meant to be there; it wasn’t some rushed last-minute addition from the notes of a panicked studio suit. Two, because it is Morgan Freeman. That voice. That cadence. That intonation. That occasional wry remark. Freeman was nominated for Best Actor for this film, and make no mistake that the narration was a great deal of what got him the nomination. The rest of his acting is terrific, to be clear. But it’s the narration that has stayed with people over the decades. It’s arguably the most successful film narration ever.

Freeman did not win the Best Actor Oscar that year. It went to Tom Hanks for Forrest Gump. In the light of 2025, and the esteem in which Freeman’s performance is currently held, this could be seen as a puzzling choice. This is where I remind people (or, if they’re young, inform them) that The Shawshank Redemption was a box office failure when it came out in 1994. It cost $25 million to make and made only $16 million in its first spin through the theaters. The film’s seven Oscar nominations actually prompted Columbia Pictures to re-release the film in February of 1995, which goosed the domestic take up to just under $25 million. Then it came out on home video and was a monster, becoming the top video rental of 1995. That and incessant showings on basic cable, brought the movie to the esteem it has today.

But in 1994? Shawshank made less in the theaters than Forrest Gump made in its first weekend; throw in the February re-release and they draw up about even. It was a minor miracle that Shawshank was nominated for seven Oscars at all. It didn’t win any because it was up against Gump and Pulp Fiction and lots of other movies seen more by the public and by Academy voters. The only major award of any note that the film won was one it from the American Society of Cinematographers, who gave Roger Deakins their award for theatrical releases. Really, that’s pretty much it.

Fear not, for the Oscar comes to Morgan Freeman a decade later, in 2005, when he wins his statuette for Million Dollar Baby. By this time, Morgan Freeman has become Morgan Freeman, The Voice of God — literally, in the case of the film Bruce Almighty — and the most recognizable voice this side of James Earl Jones, Tim Robbins, who plays Andy Dufresne in Shawshank, will also win an Oscar, his in 2004. Curiously, both Freeman and Robbins will win their Oscars being directed by Clint Eastwood.

Does Freeman owe his eventual Oscar to Shawshank? You’ll have to imagine me making a see-saw motion here, since among other things Eastwood worked with Freeman before, notably on Unforgiven, and of course Freeman had turned in Oscar-caliber performances prior to Shawshank. But there’s no doubt that Freeman’s cultural capital had been raised considerably, and much of that comes from this role and its slow ascendance into public consciousness. Freeman is responsible for Freeman winning an Oscar. Shawshank is responsible for making Freeman, America’s Quiet Yet Comforting Voice of Authority, our very own ASMR Daddy, letting us know everything will be all right.

Morgan Freeman has become such a voice icon that there is an entire genre of internet meme devoted to putting text next to a picture of him so when you read the text, you hear him saying the words in your mind, automatically giving those words credibility, no matter what the words are. You could post the words “kittens are a wholesome and natural snack” next to Freeman’s face and suddenly at least some people would be wondering if that wasn’t true. It’s not true, by the way. Please don’t eat kittens. Also Freeman never said that. Freeman probably said none of those things that those memes attribute to him. The internet lies, people.

So instead, let me leave you with words Morgan Freeman did say, in The Shawshank Redemption, near the end of the film: “Get busy living, or get busy dying.” This is the choice Red has to consider for himself, and the choice he makes is informed by every other thing that has happened in the film. If you watched the film, you know his answer, and if you haven’t watched it I’m not going to spoil it for you now.

Either way, with or without Morgan Freeman saying them to you, I want you to consider those words in your own life, especially when things are difficult, as they so frequently are. The choices you make and the actions that come from them will make a difference to you and those around you. The Shawshank Redemption, in the end, is about this. You don’t need Morgan Freeman to tell you it’s important. But I have to tell you, it doesn’t hurt when he does.

Thanks for sticking with me for The December Comfort Watches this month. I hope the new year brings you joy, and comfort, and movies.

— JS

Wednesday, December 31st, 2025 05:04 pm
Star Wars

Twilight on Owl Creek Bridge by [archiveofourown.org profile] yellow_caballero
SUBJECT: Regarding Senate Guard Objectives For Today

This is a polite reminder to all guardsmen that patrol schedules for the Senate vote ratifying dictatorships are posted in the breakroom. I am also issuing a warning to linear time that days should follow sequentially and are not intended to repeat. Please cease repeating. I am getting a headache.

Additionally, I'd like to remind all guardsmen that it is illegal to harbor invisible women in the Senate. If you see a ghost claiming to be Leia Organa, please remove her from the premises. She will be making a scene.

Thank you for your cooperation in preserving the peace of the Republic, and all hail the Empire.
FOX


Fox and Leia get caught up in some timey-wimey Force shenanigans. Oh my heart...

and the AU where it's a more traditional time travel type story: Fox & Leia's Star Wars Holiday Special

Wednesday, December 31st, 2025 04:59 pm
Crossovers

Rivers of London/Slow Horses

The Spirit of Regent's Park by [archiveofourown.org profile] featherxquill
Newly minted First Desk Diana Taverner visits the Folly to find out who this Thomas Nightingale fellow is, and learns a few things about London that are closer to home than she expects. Excellent crossover! Now I want all the crossovers between all these characters!



Vids

Ted Lasso

In The Middle by [youtube.com profile] cursedwerewolf
Super cute Jamie/Keeley/Roy vid.

Wednesday, December 31st, 2025 03:32 pm
Sometimes I still get comments and kudos on Transfigurations and my other Harry Potter stories.

Of course I have mixed feelings about this. On the one hand, fandom belongs to the fans, and the outpouring of love and work and time that created the fandom was ours and remains ours. On the other hand, I don't like the ongoing link to someone who has traded in a career as an author for one as a full-time pro-hate activist.

I don't want to take the stories down. I don't want to orphan them. I just want to be able to take some pleasure in them again.

So starting with 2026, I'm making donations to https://transgenderlawcenter.org and https://give.thetrevorproject.org in honor of fanreaders. That way when the titles come up in my email, I'll have a nice, warm feeling knowing that they're connected with people who are doing something positive for the lives of trans people.

(Thanks to [personal profile] terminally_underwhelmed for recommending the organizations.)
Wednesday, December 31st, 2025 01:28 pm
Title: The world according to historical Chinese dramas (from the perspective of your mum as she does the washing)
Fandom: Your Mum Does the Washing – Joshua Idehun
Challenge: Clean



Read more... )
Wednesday, December 31st, 2025 08:48 pm
So this is just gonna be a Stranger Things thoughts post! The second volume of the season went live on Christmas Day night (absurd time to put it out honestly) but I was t able to watch till Saturday night. I had hoped to do multiple eps per night, but alas tiredness won out, so I spread them out over the last three nights.

So! Thoughts ahoy!

(I really need a bunch more Stranger Things icons, expect a few in the new year when I have the focus)

Read more... )

I’m not entirely sure when I’ll watch the last ep. It might be New Years Day Night but that very much depends on my energy which tends to be so off now. So maybe Friday or Saturday instead.

Hopefully I’ll have a more general post tomorrow or Friday too, but ai know snowflake starts tomorrow so there’ll be at least that.
Wednesday, December 31st, 2025 04:27 pm
Wichita (1226 words) by Anonymous
Chapters: 1/1
Fandom: Mad Men
Rating: General Audiences
Warnings: No Archive Warnings Apply
Characters: Bob Benson, Pete Campbell
Summary:

Pete can't get to Wichita.


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Perfect Pete Campbell voice that made me howl laughing. I deeply enjoy his pain.
Wednesday, December 31st, 2025 09:18 pm

Title: Traitor
Fandom: Babylon 5
Author: [personal profile] badly_knitted
Characters: Garibaldi, Bester.
Rating: PG
Word Count: 300
Spoilers/Setting: The Face of the Enemy.
Summary: Now that Bester has restored Garibaldi’s memories, Garibaldi must find a way to fix what he’s done.
Content Notes: None needed.
Written For: Challenge 501: Amnesty 83, using Challenge 144: Memory.
Disclaimer: I don’t own Babylon 5, or the characters. They belong to J. Michael Straczynski.
A/N: Triple drabble.



Wednesday, December 31st, 2025 12:14 pm
First of all, I finished the Murderbot gen action WIP that I've been posting in installments. (It also ended up being the longest thing I've put on AO3 since 2022 ...)

Combat System Critical (Murderbot TV-verse, 20K wds, gen)
SecUnit is on Preservation when an attempted assassination on a PresAux team member turns a quiet retreat at a backwater university into a fight for survival.

Brief spoilery notes on the Murderbot ficI've had the idea of Gurathin's augments allowing him to survive being shot in the head with an energy weapon since I've been writing fic in this fandom, so that was the detail on which this plot pivoted. Of course then it took me absolutely ages to actually get to that part! I was a little worried that some other fic would do it in the meantime, and honestly I'm a little surprised that no one has.


And my annual New Year's fic is up! Babylon 5 this time.

Five Kisses at the New Year (Babylon 5, 4300 wds, mostly gen)
What it says on the tin. 2257 to 2278.

Brief spoilery notes on the B5 ficI went back and forth on whether to keep the final Londo & G'Kar scene (or maybe include it as apocryphal, or an outtake), and end on the hopeful note of Lochley and the new Ambassadors instead. That final scene is just pure self-indulgence (and maybe a bit of emotional h/c), but I decided to keep it; is it really a proper B5 fic if it doesn't stab you in the heart at some point?

I also liked the idea of doing B5 for my New Year's fic this year since the show itself is arranged around the turn of the year.
Wednesday, December 31st, 2025 09:03 pm
19 recs for art pieces drawn for [community profile] doodle4doodle at my journal

Fandoms include:
The Complete Tales of Peter Rabbit and Friends by Beatrix Potter
Critical Role: Exandria
Final Fantasy X
Hollow Knight / Silksong:
Legend of Zelda (Breath of the Wild / Tears of the Kingdom; Link's Awakening)
Original work
Sailor Moon
Sherlock Holmes
Soulcalibur
Spy x Family
Stargate Atlantis
W.I.T.C.H.
Wednesday, December 31st, 2025 03:07 pm
books
The Impossible Fortune (Thursday Murder Club #5) by Richard Osman. This one just didn't grab me. Too many criminals, not enough Murder Club.

Xmas
was good, though delayed until Monday. I had a nice time, even if one of my gifts to my parents was redundant. The food was pretty great, though.

yarning/etsy
My Rock Star Lestat art doll sold on Christmas Day! Yay!! After which I finished a donation hat. And then another hat while reading Yuletide. I missed yarn group due to traveling for Xmas, though I got a commission for a Kermit green kickbunny, so I worked on that over my belated holiday. And I got a commission for an Older Daniel Molloy art doll yesterday, yay, so I'll be working on that over the next couple of days.

yuletide
reveals are tomorrow! Yay!

#resist
Tuesday, January 20: #50501 Free America Walk-out, 2pm local time. https://www.FreeAmeri.ca

Happy New Year, everyone! Please be safe as you enjoy kicking 2025 to the curb! <333
Wednesday, December 31st, 2025 03:28 pm
I know intellectually that six days is not the longest I've spent indoors, but I notice that even the knee replacement four years ago only kept me in for seven. Oh dear.

Dreamed of having to leave my dream!house at night to consult a professor? police detective? some kind of expert? because there was an unwrapped mummy!!! under my bed eww yuck. He sent his minions in and discovered that there were actually four of the things so I couldn't go home till they'd been disposed of. Turned on my other side and dreamed of going to what passed for the daycare to see my old friend L who was still business co-ord, but problems kept cropping up and she couldn't get away. So I wandered into the Infant section where my old coworker S was changing a baby. Neither L nor S have been at the DC since the turn of the millennium, or possibly before-- unreliable memory says both left in 1999-- but that baby I remember well. He had no off switch when it came to food and we always had to cut him off after three large bowls, to his extreme displeasure. His umm leavings were in proportion to his intake, which was bad enough when he was still in diapers but disastrous when it came to toilet training. Ah yes, I remember B well.

Woke in cold and started downstairs to see if it was just the thermostat set to moderate or if the vent had somehow got blocked. Furnace came on as I was still descending, but since I was there I steeled myself to check what damage holiday indulgence had wrought. A kilo, which could be much worse, but eventually I must stop drinking Black Russians and start drinking more water. And moving more somehow.

Anyway, went up to Loblaws for pharmaceuticals. No sane person shops on New Year's Eve but it wasn't that bad. Of course there were fields of ridged ice at several street corners and driveways, but that's winter in this here burg. Snow and snowflurries expected all week but will eventually get that book back to the library. And my backup lenses from the Extremely Expensive But Reliable company arrived in good order, so I now have eight weeks' worth, by which time maybe my preferred company will at last get the two boxes of 90 each that I ordered out to me. Knew I shouldn't have ordered two boxes-- absolutely tempting fate-- but I'm tired of having to a) order a month in advance every two months and b) wait on tenterhooks to see if c) they have them in stock or d) if they're on backorder and if so, e) will there be a postal strike that prevents them getting to me? This got old years ago.

Reading-wise, finished Silverlock. Mr. Google cannot in fact tell who everyone is, even though there's a webpage that has some annotations.
http://anitra.net/commonwealth/refindex.html
Wednesday, December 31st, 2025 03:55 pm
Jeeves and the Knot in the Tie of Time (8768 words) by Anonymous
Chapters: 1/1
Fandom: Jeeves - P. G. Wodehouse
Rating: Teen And Up Audiences
Warnings: No Archive Warnings Apply
Relationships: Reginald Jeeves/Bertram "Bertie" Wooster
Characters: Bertram "Bertie" Wooster, Reginald Jeeves
Additional Tags: Time Loop, Humor, Pining, Misunderstandings, POV Bertram "Bertie" Wooster, First Kiss, Bertie to the rescue! ...well sort of., he rallies as best he can, Yuletide 2025
Summary:

“I am trapped in a time loop, sir,” confessed Jeeves, at long last.
“Ah, these things are sent to try us,” said I.

 

Or: In which time develops a knot, a valet does not know how to unravel it, and a young master suggests a household remedy from tales of old.


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Top-hole Wodehouse pastiche with time loops, one of my favorite tropes.
Wednesday, December 31st, 2025 08:54 pm


Hello to all members, passers-by, curious onlookers, and shy lurkers, and welcome to our regular daily check-in post. Just leave a comment below to let us know how your current projects are progressing, or even if they're not.

Checking in is NOT compulsory, check in as often or as seldom as you want, this community isn't about pressure it's about encouragement, motivation, and support. Crafting is meant to be fun, and what's more fun than sharing achievements and seeing the wonderful things everyone else is creating?

There may also occasionally be questions, but again you don't have to answer them, they're just a way of getting to know each other a bit better.


This Week's Question: What are your crafting goals for 2026?


If anyone has any questions of their own about the community, or suggestions for tags, questions to be asked on the check-in posts, or if anyone is interested in playing check-in host for a week here on the community, which would entail putting up the daily check-in posts and responding to comments, go to the Questions & Suggestions post and leave a comment.

I now declare this Check-In OPEN!
Wednesday, December 31st, 2025 03:32 pm
December was a good writing month for me.

For SGA Saturday I wrote: The Further Exploits of Agent Lorne: Quantum Mirror Cop

My SGA Secret Santa stories this year were:

Regenisis Protocol and

Proculus Bound

Plus, I slipped a piece of Teyla/Elizabeth art as a surprise gift for kira_nerys_rocks when I heard their story might be late. Our Year in Atlantis
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Wednesday, December 31st, 2025 02:38 pm
Today I'm making "Crockpot African Black-Eyed Peas" for New Year's Eve. :D
Wednesday, December 31st, 2025 02:37 pm
I haven't made my list yet, because that's part of tomorrow's task list. However, the post for 2026 New Year's Resolutions and Other Goals is up on [community profile] goals_on_dw for folks who do theirs on December 31. Go check it out! Pass the word to anyone you think might be interested, especially when you see people posting about their goals. There's also a Masterlist of Alternatives for those who hate resolutions and/or feel overextended already.
Wednesday, December 31st, 2025 08:06 pm
Title: All I Want For Christmas
Fandom: Spooks (MI5)
Rating: G
Length: 511 words
Summary: Don't believe all that you see
Also written for [community profile] ficlet_zone  Mariah Cary challenge

Wednesday, December 31st, 2025 12:02 pm
Getting my recs in before the wire!

I received not one but three lovely fics, all of which really captured the spirit of their respective canons:

ExpandCreated For Me )


Other stories I enjoyed:
ExpandYulerecs )
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Wednesday, December 31st, 2025 06:59 pm

Posted by Ask a Manager

It’s “where are you now?” month at Ask a Manager, and all December I’m running updates from people who had their letters here answered in the past.

Remember the federal employee wondering whether to stick it out or leave (#3 at the link)? Here’s the update.

Here’s a bit of an update from one of the federal employees who wrote in back in January. Not much has changed on my end, although it’s been a long year. I’ve gotten a resume completed, which at least is a step closer than I’ve been in over a decade to looking for another job, and have looked around, but haven’t found anything that would work for my situation. Right now is a lousy time to be looking for work; everything I’ve found has been for half my current salary, which is not financially feasible, or is for positions I have absolutely no training in or aptitude for (think nursing or engineering positions which require specific degrees). My spouse has a disability that means they haven’t been able to work for awhile (over a year), and also means that the golden handcuffs of awesome benefits are more important than they were in the past.

At the same time, things have not gotten as much worse in my job as I originally feared they would. I work for an agency that pays out benefits (think something like VA benefits [benefits for military veterans, for those not from the U.S.]), which means that we are extremely popular with the public and it’s harder for them to destroy us – not that they haven’t tried, but the push-back was extreme enough that they backed off (unlike, say, science-based agencies which have been harmed beyond words).

There have been unpleasant changes but most of them are on the level of higher workloads with fewer staff. I’m burned out on all of this but have managed to keep my sanity. I’ve taken the good advice from this website that I can’t care more about the job than the people in charge. They want to make it harder on us so we will quit or be demoralized? Good for them; I’m going to show up, do as much work as I can complete in 8 hours, and then go home. More stuff left on my plate? That’s a problem for future me to figure out when I come back in the next day. We aren’t meeting our increasingly unrealistic numbers? I guess they should have hired more people; they’ll get what they get when they get it.

So for the moment I’m in a holding pattern. I’m still keeping my eyes a little bit open for other stuff I could apply to. I’ve discussed with my spouse what changes at my work I would consider immoral enough to resign; as mentioned above, our program has been relatively unscathed, but I do not want to be the proverbial frog in a slowly boiling pot. I’m trying to get all of my medical stuff taken care of as soon as possible while I know I’ve still got the good coverage. Right now I’m 3 years away from early retirement age, and my tentative plan is to hold out until then so my spouse and I can have the health insurance benefits that will last the rest of our lives. We’ll see if I make it that far; I am feeling so burned out! And I recognize that the people in power would love to cut those benefits if at all possible, so this could be the fairy gold that turns to dried leaves in my hands. But it’s a specific, concrete goal that is feasible given the current state of affairs, and it will mean a lot to my family if I can make it there and keep that retirement insurance. And if I get the reduced pension that I’d get in 3 years, that gives more wiggle room to apply for a job that will pay less, if that’s still what’s available then.

Or who knows? Maybe my spouse will return to work; maybe the job situation will change and I’ll find something else that will pay enough for us to survive on; maybe there will be a radical shift in the powers that be at my job and things will get either better or so much worse I have to leave. At least for right now, we have a roof over our heads, food on the table, and kibble in the cat dishes, and that’s what I can manage for the moment.

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Wednesday, December 31st, 2025 01:32 pm
Researchers find ADHD strengths linked to better mental health

New research reveals a brighter side of ADHD, showing that adults who recognize and use their strengths feel happier, healthier, and less stressed. People with ADHD were more likely to identify traits like creativity, humor, and hyperfocus as personal strengths. Across the board, using these strengths was linked to better quality of life and fewer mental health symptoms. The study suggests that embracing strengths could be a game-changer for ADHD support.


This is not new, nor is it news. Being yourself is good for you. Pretending to be something you're not is bad for you; over time it tends to wreck your health and can kill you. See Prolonged Adaptive Stress Syndrome and ADHD Burnout.

Therefore, pressuring or forcing someone to behave against their nature is abuse.

Be yourself.  Don't apologize for who you are.  Find your strengths.  Especially with neurodiverse people, there is usually something you excel at that "normal" people suck at.  Capitalize on that.  You deserve to be healthy and happy.