OMG, the Beast is about to spawn again!

[draconis]

Okay, don't say I didn't warn you... ::G::

I just heard from my father -- apparently, my little sister is pregnant with her second child.

Nevermind that her first child is already a teenager, and will be heading to college before this one gets into kindergarten -- and the only way they'll be able to pay for his college education is if they win the lottery, and that's without figuring in the expense of another small child's needs.

Nevermind that they're perpetually strapped for funds as it is, and can't afford the family they have -- including their 15 dogs. (See earlier comment about inability to pay for current child's education)

Nevermind that she is so lazy that she went into teaching so that she would only have to work a portion of the year -- and in spite of the previous two comments, she was shocked and offended when my father told her she should get a summer job instead of laying around on her ass for three months.

Nevermind that she is so small-minded, bigoted, and willfully ignorant that she was unable to get tenure in the TN school system at a time when they were absolutely desperate for teachers.

Nevermind that her personality is such that much of the family routinely refers to her as "Little Bitch" -- not in the sense of "she's such a little bitch," but in the sense of "Go tell Little Bitch that dinner's ready" and everyone knows exactly who is being referred to.

Nevermind that she takes horrible care of herself, and that I don't expect her to change that simply for the benefit of the child she's carrying.

What really depresses me is the fact that the first thought that went through my mind when I heard this was, "Great -- that will give her another 15-20 years to mooch off of our parents." I don't quite think that she deliberately got pregnant again for that specific reason... but I also remember that she deliberately got herself pregnant the first time so that she wouldn't have to go back to college. (Yes, I'm serious.)

This is probably so insensitive of me as to be off the scale, but it would probably be better for everyone if she didn't carry this one to term.

• it is still very early -- as in, probably still within the first month, according to my father. A natural termination now would be emotionally distressing, but at least it would stop there


• she takes horrible care of herself, which would have direct impact on the fetus, as well as on the child after it is born


• her housekeeping skills are nonexistent, and certainly not up to 3 humans + 15 dogs -- introducing an infant into that environment would not be a good thing, IMO


• I'm pretty sure that part of the reason our parents have put up with so much of her crap has been for the benefit of their grandchild. Once he's out of her house, they no longer have to tolerate quite so much of her parasitic behavior

As I said, I'm probably being incredibly insensitive, but I cannot see how this would be a good thing for anyone involved except her, and then only for what it allows her to keep doing -- living off of our parents.

Comments

[miintikwa.livejournal.com]

Dear gods above.

I shall pray for a good outcome.

[jcbdragon.livejournal.com]

Thank you.

Personally, I'm hoping she got a false-positive on the EPT.

[miintikwa.livejournal.com]

I was hoping either that, or a miscarriage, which feels harsh, but sometimes is the best outcome.