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I don’t even try to do these quarterly anymore. I’ve given up and just do this at the end of the year. So here goes… the list of anime I watched in 2025:
( All the Anime I watched... )
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How are you doing?
I am OK.
16 (66.7%)
I am not OK, but don't need help right now.
8 (33.3%)
I could use some help.
0 (0.0%)
How many other humans live with you?
I am living single.
7 (29.2%)
One other person.
10 (41.7%)
More than one other person.
7 (29.2%)

Over the last few days I have been reading lots of Dreamwidth; I'm now caught up to the 19th of December, which is as up-to-date as I think I've been since April.
I have also had a toasted sandwich lunch on a park bench with A, under a clear blue sky; quietly played several games; and, eventually, made a start on setting up next year's notebook.
Thank you for sharing your lives with me. <3
"It's past my bedtime,"
angelofthenorth said, "why isn't it midnight yet???"
V said they'd have to go to bed soon too (it's about the usual time for them to do that).
I told them about how when I was a kid and whined to stay up on New Year's Eve, I'd see Dick Clark and the countdown and fireworks and everything, and then my parents would send me off to bed...at 11pm in our time zone.
So we're doing the same thing now; close enough, it's now new year for my online pals in Germany and Switzerland and the Netherlands and Sweden and Norway, happy 2026!
angelofthenorth got out the Bucks Fizz, I delivered a glass upstairs to D who was about to get in the shower.
I've been in my pajamas since I made dinner (soup! accidentally keeping up with tradition for new year's eve), and I am looking forward to seeing an old friend for the first time in months tomorrow and catching up on what's going on in their life.
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End of 2025. The only important summary I can think of is "Two
children, both now successfully enjoying school".
(Seen here shopping for new parents)
See you in 2026!
Original
is here on Pixelfed.scot.

It’s strange, and possibly borderline offensive, to suggest that an at-the-time two-time Academy Award nominee and Golden Globe-winning actor had not arrived before appearing in The Shawshank Redemption. But guess what, this is precisely what I am going to do, right now. The Shawshank Redemption did a number of things: Gave Stephen King arguably his best movie adaptation. Moved Frank Darabont from a middlin’ genre screenwriter to the Hollywood A-list. Grabbed seven Oscar nominations, including Best Picture. Became the top-rated movie of all time on IMDb. This movie did all of these things. But what it truly did, was give the world its current understanding of the phenomenon that is Morgan Freeman. Freeman came into The Shawshank Redemption appreciated, admired, awarded and accomplished. He came out of Shawshank an icon.
It’s the narration, of course. The scaffolding of the entire movie, which Freeman offers in his rich, unhurried voice, offering context and commentary low and slow. Freeman isn’t just saying the words, he’s braising them, making them tender and toothsome but with just enough wry bite to keep the audience coming back. The words Freeman is saying come from Stephen King’s novella, filtered through Darabont’s screenplay. But make no mistake. The moment he starts speaking, they are his. It’s not an exaggeration to say that more than anything else, it’s Morgan Freeman, and his voice, that have made this movie the classic it is today. Take it away, it’s just another prison drama.
Maybe that’s too dismissive. Even without the narration, it would be a very handsome, very accomplished prison drama, and one that in many ways is clearly a labor of love for Frank Darabont. Darabont spent some of the money he got for his first feature film screenplay (A Nightmare on Elm Street 3: Dream Warriors) to secure an option on “Rita Hayworth and the Shawshank Redemption” from its author Stephen King. He reportedly spent $5,000 on the option; King reportedly never cashed the check. Darabont wrote a script and took a meeting at Castle Rock Productions, home of another fellow who liked Stephen King, Rob Reiner. Reiner loved the script and wanted to direct it, offering Darabont a fair amount of money to let him do so. Darabont took less money for the opportunity to direct it himself.
I think this is was a good choice on Darabont’s part. The version of Shawshank that Reiner would have made would, I think, have been good — we have both Stand By Me and Misery to stand testament to that. That said, there’s a lightness to Rob Reiner’s work (yes, even when Annie Wilkes is taking a sledgehammer to Paul Sheldon’s ankles, we’re talking an overall gestalt), in the way he frames and lights and shoots his scenes, and in how he directs his actors. Reiner’s Shawshank would have looked and played very differently, even with the same script in hand.
Darabont doesn’t do “light” — not just in this film but in any of them. He tried to do light in The Majestic and while I like that film quite a lot, actually, boy, was he not the right director for that. Darabont is dark — well, “dark” makes it sound like he’s goth or something, which he’s not. Let’s say “somber.” He’s somber, and his frame is considered, and he doesn’t do a closeup when he’s got a perfectly good medium shot to go to. Shit, even his close-ups aren’t that close up.
I suppose a word that matches well with Shawshank’s pace and bearing is “stately.” Nothing fast, everything considered, all of it moving along in its own time. Which makes sense. Everyone in this movie is doing time. Twenty years, forty years, life. They don’t have to be in a rush for anything. So they’re not, and neither is this film.
(There are fight scenes, and they are violent, and things move fast there. Again, big picture, folks.)
Darabont’s sensibilities as a director are precisely right for the story he wants to tell here, one where we need to feel the whole wide expanse of the time these men have at their disposal, and how time itself disposes of them. One of the most celebrated parts of the film is an interlude where an older convict, one who has spent nearly all his life in the prison, is paroled and loosed upon the world — or more accurately the world is loosed upon him. “The world got itself in a big damn hurry,” he writes his friends, but Darabont doesn’t make the interlude hurry at all. He follows it, stately, to its inevitable conclusion.
There is a larger story here. It’s told mostly by Ellis “Red” Redding (Freeman) in narration, centering on his friend Andy Dufresne (Tim Robbins), who is serving two life sentences for the murder of his estranged wife and her lover. Andy doesn’t fit into prison, and not just because he was a banker in his previous life. There’s something else going on with him that makes him an odd fish. Nevertheless over time Red and his friends warm to Andy, and Andy returns the favor as the skills from his past life start to come in handy for a warden (Bob Gunton) who has big plans, not all of them on the up-and-up.
Andy is a lifer and his life is no cakewalk in prison, but he holds out hope, which is something Red doesn’t approve of. Hope of what? Hope for what? It’s never specified, and then one day an important piece of information comes to light about Andy’s crimes. Things happen not fast after that, but certainly quicker than they had before, and we discover why Red had to be the narrator after all.
In King’s novella, Red is Irish (a throwaway line in the script, played for humor, is all that remains of that), but after this movie there is no way anyone would imagine anyone else but Freeman in the role. Freeman gives the character gravitas, but not at the expense of making you forget he’s in prison, and rightfully so. Red’s a lifer, and has the perspective of a lifer. If he’s maybe a little smarter than most of the other inmates, with somewhat more perspective, it doesn’t make his position any better than theirs, and he knows it. Red has gotten to sit with his own bullshit for years and years, and Freeman’s performance reflects that fact. The character has gravitas because the world and his choices weigh on him.
That comes through, to bring everything ’round again, in the narration. Narration is almost never a very good idea in film. It usually means that you’ve come to the end of production and editing and realized, shit, some very important plot points have been left terribly unwritten in the script, quick, grab the lead and loop in some lines. Bad narration can drag a film down (see: the original version of Blade Runner, where Harrison Ford’s apparently intentional leaden line readings indicated what value he thought they brought to the film) or even make it more confusing than it was before (see: 1984’s version of Dune, which to be fair, no amount of explanatory narration could have salvaged). So why does it work here?
One, because going back all the way to King’s novella, this was always Red’s story, even as he’s telling it about Andy. The frame was always there, and always meant to be there; it wasn’t some rushed last-minute addition from the notes of a panicked studio suit. Two, because it is Morgan Freeman. That voice. That cadence. That intonation. That occasional wry remark. Freeman was nominated for Best Actor for this film, and make no mistake that the narration was a great deal of what got him the nomination. The rest of his acting is terrific, to be clear. But it’s the narration that has stayed with people over the decades. It’s arguably the most successful film narration ever.
Freeman did not win the Best Actor Oscar that year. It went to Tom Hanks for Forrest Gump. In the light of 2025, and the esteem in which Freeman’s performance is currently held, this could be seen as a puzzling choice. This is where I remind people (or, if they’re young, inform them) that The Shawshank Redemption was a box office failure when it came out in 1994. It cost $25 million to make and made only $16 million in its first spin through the theaters. The film’s seven Oscar nominations actually prompted Columbia Pictures to re-release the film in February of 1995, which goosed the domestic take up to just under $25 million. Then it came out on home video and was a monster, becoming the top video rental of 1995. That and incessant showings on basic cable, brought the movie to the esteem it has today.
But in 1994? Shawshank made less in the theaters than Forrest Gump made in its first weekend; throw in the February re-release and they draw up about even. It was a minor miracle that Shawshank was nominated for seven Oscars at all. It didn’t win any because it was up against Gump and Pulp Fiction and lots of other movies seen more by the public and by Academy voters. The only major award of any note that the film won was one it from the American Society of Cinematographers, who gave Roger Deakins their award for theatrical releases. Really, that’s pretty much it.
Fear not, for the Oscar comes to Morgan Freeman a decade later, in 2005, when he wins his statuette for Million Dollar Baby. By this time, Morgan Freeman has become Morgan Freeman, The Voice of God — literally, in the case of the film Bruce Almighty — and the most recognizable voice this side of James Earl Jones, Tim Robbins, who plays Andy Dufresne in Shawshank, will also win an Oscar, his in 2004. Curiously, both Freeman and Robbins will win their Oscars being directed by Clint Eastwood.
Does Freeman owe his eventual Oscar to Shawshank? You’ll have to imagine me making a see-saw motion here, since among other things Eastwood worked with Freeman before, notably on Unforgiven, and of course Freeman had turned in Oscar-caliber performances prior to Shawshank. But there’s no doubt that Freeman’s cultural capital had been raised considerably, and much of that comes from this role and its slow ascendance into public consciousness. Freeman is responsible for Freeman winning an Oscar. Shawshank is responsible for making Freeman, America’s Quiet Yet Comforting Voice of Authority, our very own ASMR Daddy, letting us know everything will be all right.
Morgan Freeman has become such a voice icon that there is an entire genre of internet meme devoted to putting text next to a picture of him so when you read the text, you hear him saying the words in your mind, automatically giving those words credibility, no matter what the words are. You could post the words “kittens are a wholesome and natural snack” next to Freeman’s face and suddenly at least some people would be wondering if that wasn’t true. It’s not true, by the way. Please don’t eat kittens. Also Freeman never said that. Freeman probably said none of those things that those memes attribute to him. The internet lies, people.
So instead, let me leave you with words Morgan Freeman did say, in The Shawshank Redemption, near the end of the film: “Get busy living, or get busy dying.” This is the choice Red has to consider for himself, and the choice he makes is informed by every other thing that has happened in the film. If you watched the film, you know his answer, and if you haven’t watched it I’m not going to spoil it for you now.
Either way, with or without Morgan Freeman saying them to you, I want you to consider those words in your own life, especially when things are difficult, as they so frequently are. The choices you make and the actions that come from them will make a difference to you and those around you. The Shawshank Redemption, in the end, is about this. You don’t need Morgan Freeman to tell you it’s important. But I have to tell you, it doesn’t hurt when he does.
Thanks for sticking with me for The December Comfort Watches this month. I hope the new year brings you joy, and comfort, and movies.
— JS
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Pete can't get to Wichita.
“I am trapped in a time loop, sir,” confessed Jeeves, at long last.
“Ah, these things are sent to try us,” said I.
Or: In which time develops a knot, a valet does not know how to unravel it, and a young master suggests a household remedy from tales of old.
It’s “where are you now?” month at Ask a Manager, and all December I’m running updates from people who had their letters here answered in the past.
Remember the federal employee wondering whether to stick it out or leave (#3 at the link)? Here’s the update.
Here’s a bit of an update from one of the federal employees who wrote in back in January. Not much has changed on my end, although it’s been a long year. I’ve gotten a resume completed, which at least is a step closer than I’ve been in over a decade to looking for another job, and have looked around, but haven’t found anything that would work for my situation. Right now is a lousy time to be looking for work; everything I’ve found has been for half my current salary, which is not financially feasible, or is for positions I have absolutely no training in or aptitude for (think nursing or engineering positions which require specific degrees). My spouse has a disability that means they haven’t been able to work for awhile (over a year), and also means that the golden handcuffs of awesome benefits are more important than they were in the past.
At the same time, things have not gotten as much worse in my job as I originally feared they would. I work for an agency that pays out benefits (think something like VA benefits [benefits for military veterans, for those not from the U.S.]), which means that we are extremely popular with the public and it’s harder for them to destroy us – not that they haven’t tried, but the push-back was extreme enough that they backed off (unlike, say, science-based agencies which have been harmed beyond words).
There have been unpleasant changes but most of them are on the level of higher workloads with fewer staff. I’m burned out on all of this but have managed to keep my sanity. I’ve taken the good advice from this website that I can’t care more about the job than the people in charge. They want to make it harder on us so we will quit or be demoralized? Good for them; I’m going to show up, do as much work as I can complete in 8 hours, and then go home. More stuff left on my plate? That’s a problem for future me to figure out when I come back in the next day. We aren’t meeting our increasingly unrealistic numbers? I guess they should have hired more people; they’ll get what they get when they get it.
So for the moment I’m in a holding pattern. I’m still keeping my eyes a little bit open for other stuff I could apply to. I’ve discussed with my spouse what changes at my work I would consider immoral enough to resign; as mentioned above, our program has been relatively unscathed, but I do not want to be the proverbial frog in a slowly boiling pot. I’m trying to get all of my medical stuff taken care of as soon as possible while I know I’ve still got the good coverage. Right now I’m 3 years away from early retirement age, and my tentative plan is to hold out until then so my spouse and I can have the health insurance benefits that will last the rest of our lives. We’ll see if I make it that far; I am feeling so burned out! And I recognize that the people in power would love to cut those benefits if at all possible, so this could be the fairy gold that turns to dried leaves in my hands. But it’s a specific, concrete goal that is feasible given the current state of affairs, and it will mean a lot to my family if I can make it there and keep that retirement insurance. And if I get the reduced pension that I’d get in 3 years, that gives more wiggle room to apply for a job that will pay less, if that’s still what’s available then.
Or who knows? Maybe my spouse will return to work; maybe the job situation will change and I’ll find something else that will pay enough for us to survive on; maybe there will be a radical shift in the powers that be at my job and things will get either better or so much worse I have to leave. At least for right now, we have a roof over our heads, food on the table, and kibble in the cat dishes, and that’s what I can manage for the moment.
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Hello! It’s our last Links of 2025! Can you believe it?
Thank you all for joining me once again on Wednesday afternoons to partake in internet goodness and weirdness.
To cap off my winter vacation, I’ll be seeing the Backstreet Boys and I’m so excited. What’s bringing you joy to close out 2025/kick off 2026?
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I may have shared this before, but oh well! My friend introduced me to Vintage Dusties. The account revives vintage nail polish shades. It’s so soothing to watch and is available across several social media platforms, depending on what you use.
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If you have a Threads account (I think you need one to view?), I loved this thread of people bragging about their accomplishments this year. I always get a little sentimental toward New Years!
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Sarah: I’m featured in this week’s What in the World podcast from the BBC, where I’m talking about romantasy!
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And if you want a good cry, I recommend the _boringbb_ account on Instagram. The creator would take her grandmother’s fashion sketches and turn them into outfits for her. Sadly, her grandmother passed earlier this year. Both the garments she makes and the relationship she had with her grandmother are so beautiful.
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Don’t forget to share what cool or interesting things you’ve seen, read, or listened to this week! And if you have anything you think we’d like to post on a future Wednesday Links, send it my way!
At the end of Loyalty, Bush is too late to save Hornblower. With his dying breath, Hornblower requests a kiss from Bush…
…only to wake up a week later and discover he's going to live after all. Damnit.